Nov 17, 2023

"The Flower I Love the Most": Understanding Friendship Between Men and Women, and Diversity

In the fall of 2023, a remarkable new drama series caught the attention of Japan's TV industry. Titled "The Flower I Love the Most," this original work, without a pre-existing source material, delves into the theme of whether friendship between men and women is possible. The production, led by scriptwriters and producers who had previously sparked social phenomena, focuses on how this challenging issue is conveyed to society.

Approaching Social Issues

This drama goes beyond mere entertainment, with an apparent intent to address something significant to society. Its availability on free video streaming sites makes it accessible and adds to my anticipation every week. While the theme of the drama focuses on friendships between men and women, to me, it resonates more profoundly with the theme of "understanding and embracing diversity."

Personal Experiences and Empathy

From my experiences, I believe that friendships between men and women can indeed exist. I have many male friends, some of whom have even invited me to their weddings as a groom's friend or asked me to give a speech. These experiences prove that friendships can transcend gender boundaries.

However, as depicted in the drama, such friendships can sometimes be marred by misunderstandings and baseless rumors. Despite these challenges, I am grateful for these friendships.

Understanding and Embracing Diversity

When considering the importance of diversity, it's essential to respect individual will and to avoid homogenization. My experience as a university faculty member has made me acutely aware of the challenges in balancing personal will and education.

Evolving Understanding of Sexual Harassment

Respecting individual will also relates to the evolving understanding of sexual harassment. Actions that impose one's will on others, such as the belief that women should behave in a certain way or satisfying sexual desires, constitute sexual harassment. This understanding contributes to the development of a culture that respects individual will.

The Importance of Self-Expression

Lastly, I want to touch on the importance of having one's own opinions. The increasing number of students who are unable to express their thoughts indicates the need for respecting individual opinions. For effective self-expression, it's crucial to avoid imposing one's thoughts on others.

Conclusion

Through "The Flower I Love the Most," I feel that more people are striving to bring to the forefront the understanding of friendships between men and women and embracing diversity. By respecting individual will and accepting diversity, we can build a richer society. I look forward to each weekly episode and the impact this drama will continue to make.